Do your children ever make you feel stupid?

The education system may not be perfect, but wow do my children have the ability to make me feel stupid sometimes.

“No daddy, that’s not how you do it,” said Helen as she pressed ahead with her mathematics homework.

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Do your children make you feel like a dunce? Mine do a good job of making me feel stupid.

I looked on, stunned as she did some complicated thing with a bunch of numbers. She told me the answer.

Well, it was an answer. I wasn’t convinced it was correct so I checked on my phone.

I should not have doubted her. It was the correct answer. Despite attending all the ‘curriculum evenings’ organised by the school, what Helen had just done defied explanation to me.

The dreadful thing is, this scenario has played out in our house many, many times. It’s not a one off.

It doesn’t simply involve mathematics either. Both Helen and Izzy have some astounding general knowledge. It’s often knowledge they’ve either learned at school, or the school curriculum has introduced them to and they’ve gone off and learned more about it.

The solar system is one such example. Helen knows the order of every planet, it’s size, whether it has rings, whether a planet even is a planet. Did you know Pluto is actually a dwarf planet and not a planet? No, neither did I until my eldest daughter told me.

Yes, yes, okay, this kind of knowledge is largely useless. I probably knew it all as a kid but forgot it over the years as my head filled up with information about careers, jobs, paying bills, Brexit, Game of Thrones and so on.

This knowledge though, is interesting and inspiring. On the odd occasion the kids are ill and can’t go to school, I encourage them to watch YouTube videos created by NASA. This kind of video is, after all, better than videos of toys being unboxed and I enjoy watching them too!

Anyone who has a kid at primary school has no doubt been totally bamboozled by their kid returning home talking about digraphs, trigraphs, conjunctives and so on. I have to be quite frank, I left secondary school unable to identify a noun or adjective. My kids know the lot, plus some considerably more complicated concepts.

It seems that being a parent in the 21st century involves one uncomfortable aspect: Your kids can show you up. I can’t tell you the education system is perfect, but wow, my kids can make me feel stupid sometimes.

Do you ever feel like this? Do your kids successfully make you feel stupid? Mine do it time and again.

Best thing is, they’re both at primary school. Goodness knows what it’ll be like when they start secondary school. Most teenagers like to think they know everything. I think the forthcoming generation might be able to make that claim with a great deal of accuracy.

4 thoughts on “Do your children ever make you feel stupid?”

  1. I was fortunate that most things when I was a kid stayed the same when mine were in school also. I also had computers, internet and social media before them.
    The funniest we have is the kids teaching their grandparents how to use technology and they have no patience with them. Although MIL got payback on the youngest when he had no idea how to use her landline as it was the old style with the numbers in a circle to dial round

    1. Oh, I had a similar experience with the telephone! I remember the first time Helen came across a rotary dial phone and I told her to “dial one” and she just stood and stared at the phone! She had no idea what to do. As for teaching the grandparents how to use tech, well, that’ll be next on the cards.

      1. My mum is a whizz on Facebook, she discovered stories the other month and we have no idea if she intended to post a picture of herself in a new swim suit there or not. When I mentioned it, she said ‘oh it disappears after 24 hours, I’m not bothered, who wants to download me, I’m nearly 75’

        1. I salute your mother! Great attitude! Actually, my mother is not very good with technology at all, but she knows her tablet computer incredibly well. Fascinating how she has adapted to using it.

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